Lessons I've Learned this Year (2020) Hope these life lessons that i learned in 2020 will help you live your life to the fullest.



I will enter a new decade 2021. 2011-2020, a lot has happened. I completed by schooling, college, university life and has entered a new phase of life. This is the first time I am writing. I guess I am enjoying solitude time pretty well. Don't know what instigated me to write.

1. Time is limited. Phases of life will pass you by and you'll realise later that they are never going to come back.

2. Starting is easy but doing it everyday will give you actual result. Consistency is important.

3. You have got just ONE life out of sheer luck. Try to expand your consciousness about the universe and try to spread love and kindness.

4. Read books. You'll find your answers.

5. "Yeh toh mujhe yaad rahega"( They'll remember this) doesn't work. Write it down.

6. Friends can break your heart too and Money can't solve every problem.

7. Live one day at a time, you live everyday and die only once.

8. Giving 10%  ito God is very important.

9. It's okay to fail sometimes.

10. Nothing is permanent. Not even your problem and bad days.

11. Making yourself a priority is a must.

12. Just like our films, in our lives also everything becomes fine till the end. And if everything does not turn out well in the end, then that is not the end, there is more to the movie.

13. Patience, patience & more patience is the rule of life. 

14. People will say a lot of things, but you got to listen to your gut always.

15. Never leave a job or work or business until you have another one (be it plan, idea, job) in your head or hand. An empty mind is devils workshop.

16. If a person doesn’t want to stay in your life, you need to learn to let them go even if you considered her/him to be the most important part of your life. Its called respecting other’s boundaries.

17. People come, People go…..sad but true.

18. Regret really hurts so make sure you take your life decisions seriously.

19. Everyone is going through their own battles in life, so if you cant help them please be kind to them, think from others perspective and you will be able to see things that cant be explained.

20. Lastly cherish every moment of life, coz even if things are all messed up you still will find a way.

I guess this new decade will make me a better person. A lot has been happening in my life from past 6-7 months. Write now I am pretty confused as to in which direction I want to lead in life. Back to 4-5 months down the line, I was struggling through  placements. Though I wasn't that upset on not getting job. In fact, I was looking at the phase of job hunting from different point of view. In my perspective, these 22-30 years of age is the best phase of life. I mean you are struggling to get a job. But these job rejections will teach you on what aspects you need to improve and what the industry and corporate demands now a days and you work upon that.

Life goes on, it waits for nobody. So its your decision you can sit there crying over your mostly hypothetical problems or go out and do something about it. If you look closely each and every problem of yours has a solution right in front of you, you just dont wanna accept it so your spend hours worrying about it.

Remember this quote by Swami Vivekanda:

“Take risks in your life, If you win, you can lead! If you lose, you can guide!”

Wishing you a happy new year to you and your family!!!!!



Jacob Singh Sundas

Blogger Chümoukedima Town

Dimapur Nagaland

8413002017

5 comments:

  1. You are a man who loves learning from every possible sources.
    Keep this habit forever.
    Blessed 😇

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  2. Wow nice write up touched line 👌👍

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  3. Each sentences values very much bro.. Great 🙂

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